Why would he go back to her after cutting her off for so long? My husband & someone he had an affair with?

i don't think that he really ever cut her off, he may have pretended to get u to think he had. he seems to be in love with her, which is something u can't fight. clear thinking would be to face reality and see the facts, and see it for what it is and get away from it. its just not worth it to have to keep fighting for a husbands love when he clearly doesn't love u. he isn't ready to give her up, and she clearly isn't ready to give him up.